When duties are given importance, desires automatically manage themselves.
|| जय श्री कृष्ण ||
_इदमद्य मया लब्धमिमं प्राप्स्ये मनोरथम् ।_
भावार्थ :
आसुरी स्वभाव वाले मनुष्य सोचते रहते हैं कि आज मैंने इतना धन प्राप्त कर लिया है, अब इससे और अधिक धन प्राप्त कर लूंगा, मेरे पास आज इतना धन है, भविष्य में बढ़कर और अधिक हो जायेगा। (१३)
Meaning:
This has been gained by me now, these wishes I shall fulfill. This is mine, and this wealth shall be mine later.
Explanation:
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| HARE KRISHNA |
In India, when a young boy gets the news that he
has gained admission in the engineering college of his choice, a desire
automatically pops up in his mind. Once I get through my gruelling 4 year engineering course,
I will be happy. As the 4 years come to a close, another desire comes in. I
need to get into a good masters program in the US. When that happens, he feels
that he will be happy when he gets a US visa. Once he arrives in the US, he
wants a green card. Then he wants a wife, a big house, car and so on. Each time
he thinks he will be happy, another desire is waiting in line to be fulfilled.
Shri Krishna wants us to examine our own outlook
and find out the level of materialism in it. So in this shloka and the
following two shlokas, he uses the first person to drive this point home. Here,
he wants us to inquire into what we think is our ultimate goal, our
destination, our objective in life. Most of us will come to a similar
conclusion that it is the accumulation of wealth so that we can take care of our
material desires as well as those of our family.
But this line of thinking has a flaw in it. Desires
are bahushaakha, they multiply infinitely, as we have seen in earlier chapters.
Each desire contains the seed of several other desires. If any of those desires
are unfulfilled, we invite stress, tension and anxiety into our lives. Now it
does not mean that we should not harbour any desires. It just means that we
need to apply some system, some framework to ensure that desires are managed
and do not get out of hand.
The four-stage aashrama system (brahmachaari,
grihastha, vaanaprastha and sanyaasi) prescribes the duties of an individual
based on their stage in life. When duties are given importance, desires
automatically manage themselves. For instance, if one is a householder, then
one focuses on what is the essential set of desires for fulfilling one’s
duties, rather than deriving joy out of adding more and more desires. And even
if some desires are unfulfilled, they do not agitate the mind because the goal
is the duty, not the desire.
Chant the mantra you have faith in
Hare Krishna
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